The lighter side of things
After being stuck in "hole" for more than a year I can safely say that I tend to look at things at a lighter side, a different perspective rather than get uptight and pissed over every little circumstances. Well, the amount of shit that I had over the pass year has in effect made me pretty numb to bad news. That was the reason that even when I did get burn on the share market I was pretty cool about the whole thing, well bitching aside, I reckon I held on pretty well.
Someone smsed me early this morning to tell me the he has consumed some, actually loads of sleeping pills with some alcohol. I was concerned about it then and it tend to set me aback and made me unable to sleep, why is that so? Upon pondering further I relaxed and cooled down, as I know that even ingestion of a dozen or more tabs of sleeping pills would only make you sleep and drowsy for a few days unless you have some severe lung disease. It wasn't bothering me that much then,but I wonder why does everyone tend to think of ways to self destruct when it comes to things that they cannot handle? I mean why not cool down, refocus and take bad things that happen as being a lesson?
Rather than loose sleep over things that you think is bad, why not take it as perhaps whatever had happen, happens for a reason? For whatever reason it may be, would be for the better? Isn't that a more proactive and positive way to look at the mishaps that had befallen rather than taking the brunt of it as being wholely bad and suffer instead? Fact is that life as we know it are pretty short and being unhappy and to continously delve in depression and woes will only lead to self destruction. Well that's just me after having seen the "light" at the end of a long long tunnel. I am happier now, being able to let loose and take any bad things to come my way, stride by stride, one day at a time.
You know who you are if u read this, I just hope and pray that whatever that has been bothering you, depressing you or plain irritating you, it'll soon past for isn't it always that the sun shines brightly after every heavy downpour?
Someone smsed me early this morning to tell me the he has consumed some, actually loads of sleeping pills with some alcohol. I was concerned about it then and it tend to set me aback and made me unable to sleep, why is that so? Upon pondering further I relaxed and cooled down, as I know that even ingestion of a dozen or more tabs of sleeping pills would only make you sleep and drowsy for a few days unless you have some severe lung disease. It wasn't bothering me that much then,but I wonder why does everyone tend to think of ways to self destruct when it comes to things that they cannot handle? I mean why not cool down, refocus and take bad things that happen as being a lesson?
Rather than loose sleep over things that you think is bad, why not take it as perhaps whatever had happen, happens for a reason? For whatever reason it may be, would be for the better? Isn't that a more proactive and positive way to look at the mishaps that had befallen rather than taking the brunt of it as being wholely bad and suffer instead? Fact is that life as we know it are pretty short and being unhappy and to continously delve in depression and woes will only lead to self destruction. Well that's just me after having seen the "light" at the end of a long long tunnel. I am happier now, being able to let loose and take any bad things to come my way, stride by stride, one day at a time.
You know who you are if u read this, I just hope and pray that whatever that has been bothering you, depressing you or plain irritating you, it'll soon past for isn't it always that the sun shines brightly after every heavy downpour?
posted by mercuri2000 at
1:40 PM
2 Comments:
My, I had the same experience before thinking my life isn't worth and all the crap, bla bla bla. But after my 2nd (or 3rd) attempt I figured God didn't want me up or down there just yet. Unfinished business is that what you call it? :P
Despite that occassional melancholia which gets to me one day a week, I've tried to look at the more lighter or brighter side of life now.
It is so true what you have said that life is too short for us to dwell about and being unhappy that will lead to our eventual self-destruction. Taking life one day at a time and focus on something we love or belief in. :)
Good one. ;)
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Anonymous, at March 23, 2006 12:32 PM
dee,
it's invarible that any bad things will eventually end and the good times will be here, it's cyclical. the trick is not to be too immersed in the slump, and to move on and see the brighter side of things. :)
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mercuri2000, at March 24, 2006 12:22 PM
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